ABBIGAIL

In this heartfelt interview, ABBIGAIL opens up about the story behind “Relationship Killer”, turning pain into art, balancing vulnerability with storytelling, and redefining success through growth, honesty, and creative courage.

1. “Relationship Killer” feels deeply personal — what moment or realization sparked the creation of this song, and how did writing it help you process that experience?

I wrote Relationship Killer around the idea of personifying betrayal, and the moment when trust fractures. It’s such a brutal and deeply human experience, and I wanted to give words to that pain. Writing it became a way for me to untangle how betrayal not only changes how you see the other person, but also how you see yourself.

2. Your songwriting blends raw vulnerability with cinematic storytelling. How do you strike the balance between personal confession and universal connection in your lyrics?

For me, it usually starts with something honest. Something that I’ve felt, or things I’ve observed in the world. But once I get that first spark, I start zooming out. I think the magic happens when you write specific details that still feel relatable. I try to write the truth from my world in a way that lets people see their own reflection in it. I want my songs to feel like reading someone’s journal, but realizing it could’ve been yours.

3. You’ve challenged yourself to land a publishing deal in 365 days — that’s such a bold and inspiring mission. What have you learned about yourself and the music industry through this journey so far?

This challenge has pushed me outside my comfort zone in the best way. It’s demanded growth from me as a writer, an artist, and as a person. I’ve learned to choose consistency over perfection, and that it matters to show up for your art even when you don’t feel “ready.” I’ve also realized how much of the industry runs on relationships and persistence, not just talent. Personally, I’m learning to believe in myself, to pursue what I love, and to go for it!

4. Listeners have compared your sound to artists like Lizzy McAlpine, Gracie Abrams, and Phoebe Bridgers, yet you’ve carved out a voice that’s distinctly your own. How would you describe your artistic identity in your own words?

Lyrically, it’s diary-entry storytelling with a little bit of bite. I’ve always been obsessed with good storytellers, and I think that’s is reflected in my music. I love writing songs that sound delicate but lyrically, cut deep. Sonically, I like to blend soft indie textures with pop-influenced melodies.

5. Heartbreak often fuels creativity, but it can also be emotionally draining. How do you take care of your mental and emotional health while writing about such personal themes?

It’s definitely a balance. When I’m writing about something heavy, I make sure to step away and live real life too. I “come up for air” by going on walks, getting a latte at my favorite coffee shop, or cooking a familiar meal. Writing can be cathartic, but it can also re-open old wounds, so I try to treat it like a release rather than a spiral.

6. Looking ahead, once the 365 days are up, what would “success” look like for you — both in terms of your career goals and your evolution as an artist?

Of course, landing a publishing deal would be incredible, but beyond that, success for me means being able to make music full-time and knowing my songs are connecting with people. I want to build a body of work that feels honest and helps others feel seen in their own stories. This year is about chasing the dream and betting on my art, but mostly it’s about believing that my voice matters. Every day I’m choosing to show up and say “I have something to share with the world”.

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